Carers Burnout

Being a carer is a hugely meaningful role. A carer embodies compassion, empathy, and selflessness. They’re the backbone of support for those who need it most, often carried out by individuals driven by love and duty.  

However, beneath the surface lies a stark reality: the mental toll being a carer can exact is immense. While devoted to their responsibilities, carers are not immune to the strain that accompanies their duties. In the quiet moments between acts of care, many grapple with emotions between fulfilment and exhaustion.

Studies have found that 77% of UK carers have or are currently suffering from symptoms of carers’ burnout, a state of emotional, physical and mental exhaustion. 

So why are carers prone to burnout, and what can be done to help them? 

What is Burnout?

When a person suffers from burnout, they don’t have the capacity to provide their body, mind and the world around them with the energy they require. It’s just like a candle that’s run out of wick. A person feeling burnt out doesn’t have what they need to continue providing light.  

It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It occurs when you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unable to meet constant demands. As the stress continues, you begin to lose the interest and motivation that led you to take on a specific role in the first place.  

Carers’ burnout can manifest due to the demanding nature of their work. Caring for another’s wellbeing can be physically and emotionally taxing, leading to burnout. This condition affects the carers’ health and reduces their ability to provide the necessary support. 

What Causes Carers' Burnout?

Being a carer, while incredibly rewarding, is highly taxing. While the role is done with compassion, dedication and love, it’s not short of stressors that, when built up, can lead to burnout.  

Emotional Demands 

Caring is an endless cycle of emotional highs and lows, where the heartache of witnessing a person’s suffering becomes a relentless burden. The weight of emotion that comes with caring can weigh heavily on a carer’s shoulders, chipping away at their mental wellbeing. 

Physical Strain 

Every lift, every movement, every moment spent tending to another’s needs adds to the physical toll of being a carer. Chronic aches and fatigue become constant, threatening to overwhelm even the most resilient of carers and paving the way for carers’ burnout. 

Lack of Privacy 

Personal space can be impacted as the needs of another take precedence over one’s own, leaving carers unable to switch off or prioritise self-care. 

Financial Pressure 

Carers face an immense amount of medical expenses and tight budgets. Financial stresses are rarely shared, with many people feeling embarrassed to discuss money worries, leaving them feeling alone. 

Social Isolation: 

Caregiving can be a lonely experience. With long and unsociable hours, there is little time for social interactions. Loneliness is a familiar feeling amongst carers, with many feeling unable to spare a few hours for themselves due to the needs of the person they’re caring for. 

Role Confusion: 

Juggling the roles of caregiver, parent, spouse, and employee becomes a delicate balancing act. The lines blur, leaving carers overwhelmed and lost in conflicting obligations. 

Acknowledging the pressures that being a carer brings can help mitigate their impact and is vital in sustaining the health and wellbeing of carers across the UK.   

What Are the Signs of Carer's Burnout?

Just like all mental health conditions, everybody experiences burnout differently. Still, they may show common physical and mental signs of exhaustion 

Some symptoms include:  

  • Increased irritability  
  • Isolating themselves 
  • Changes in sleep patterns 
  • Feeling hopeless 
  • Physical symptoms such as headaches, gastro problems, fatigue 
  • Reduced empathy 
  • Lack of enjoyment 
  • Changes to appetite

Someone experiencing carers’ burnout may experience one or more of these symptoms but should act upon them immediately to improve their wellbeing.  

By utilising professional support and adding self-care to their daily routine, carers can help minimise the impact of burnout.  

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Self-care Tips for Carers

Caring for another does not mean you should forgo your own fundamental needs. You cannot pour from an empty cup. To provide the best care, you must be mentally and physically well.  

One way to ensure you’re prioritising your wellbeing is to embed self-care into your daily routine.  

Spend time participating in your favourite hobbies, whether gardening, baking, reading or watching your favourite show on Netflix. Allowing your brain to switch off from your caring role and get lost in your passion is a great way to refill your empty cup.  

Another way to help prevent carers’ burnout is to get regular exercise. You don’t need to go to the gym or pay for a regular class that might not suit your schedule; just a daily walk around the block or spending thirty minutes dancing to your best Spotify playlist is enough. Make sure you take some time to get your heart racing every day. This helps improve your sleep quality, releases feel-good chemicals and reduces stress.  

Socialising is vital for carers. Taking the time to switch off from your caring role and converse with friends and loved ones is paramount. Loneliness is common among paid and unpaid carers and this only fuels burnout. So set aside time every week to socialise, whether a video call, a drink at the pub or when walking the dogs, anything to help reduce feelings of loneliness.  

Other self-care habits include: 

  • Getting a good night’s sleep. 
  • Eating a nutritious diet. 
  • Take regular breaks and keep on top of your physical health.

Embedding self-care into your routine is an easy way to starve off burnout. 

Are Boundaries Important for Carers?

When it comes to the mental wellbeing of carers, setting firm boundaries isn’t just a luxury. It’s a lifeline. With clear boundaries, carers can feel like they are drowning in responsibilities. Boundaries help carers navigate their role with clarity and purpose, all of which help prevent carer burnout. 

  • Boundaries preventing overwhelm  

With clear boundaries, carers can avoid becoming overwhelmed with the demands of their role. By setting limits on their time and energy, they can prevent feelings of burnout and maintain a sense of control. 


  • They preserve relationships 

Boundaries are essential for maintaining healthy relationships with the care recipient and other loved ones. Carers can prevent resentment and maintain open communication channels by establishing clear expectations and limits. 


  • They enable independence 

Over-involvement can inadvertently create dependence in the person receiving care. Setting boundaries encourages autonomy and empowers them to take charge of aspects of their care. 


  • They reduce guilt 

Carers often grapple with feelings of guilt when prioritising their own needs. Setting boundaries helps alleviate this guilt by affirming that self-care is not selfish but necessary for long-term sustainability. 


  • They enhance resilience  

Boundaries serve as a protective buffer against burnout and compassion fatigue. By proactively managing their commitments and obligations, carers can build resilience and better weather the challenges inherent in their role. 


  • They improve decision-making 

Clear boundaries provide a framework for making informed decisions about caregiving responsibilities. Carers can assess their capacity realistically and make choices that align with their wellbeing and values. 

Setting boundaries is a form of self-preservation for carers, enabling them to navigate the complexities of their role with grace and resilience. By honouring their own needs and limitations, carers not only protect their mental health but also sustain their capacity to provide compassionate care to those they support. 

Using Mindfulness to Help Burnout

Mindfulness is a powerful tool for many mental health issues, from anxiety, stress, burnout and panic. For carers, mindfulness can be a great way to preserve mental wellbeing and prevent carers burnout. By focusing on the here and now, they can anchor themselves amongst the demands and responsibilities of caregiving.  

Mindfulness is a practice that can be embedded into their day-to-day responsibilities while not distracting them from their essential role. They can release pent-up emotions and restore a sense of calm by engaging in deep breathing exercises while cooking a meal or body scans while cleaning.  

Taking the time to ground themselves helps create a gentle and compassionate attitude towards themselves. Carers can practice self-compassion by acknowledging their struggles without judgment. This approach offers them the same kindness and understanding they extend to others. 

Through mindfulness, carers can learn to navigate their emotions with grace and resilience. Observing their feelings with curiosity and non-reactivity prevents emotional overwhelm, which helps reduce the risk of carers’ burnout.  

Embracing mindfulness gives carers an easy opportunity to nurture their wellbeing wherever they are, putting the focus on maintaining their mental wellbeing while still giving the same amount of devotion and love to the people they care for.  

Practicing Self-Compassion

Alleviating carers’ burnout hinges on practising self-compassion. Self-compassion entails extending the same kindness and understanding to oneself as to a loved one in a similar situation. 

This practice rests on three pillars:  


Self-kindness involves being gentle and understanding with oneself rather than harshly critical. It’s about acknowledging personal limits and embracing the necessity of seeking help when needed. This includes recognising the importance of rest and refraining from feeling guilty for taking time to recharge. 

 Common humanity 

Acknowledging our common humanity helps carers realise they are not alone in their struggles. Burnout can affect anyone, and acknowledging shared experiences can provide significant relief. This recognition fosters a sense of connection with others, which is vital in a role that can sometimes feel isolating. 


Mindfulness allows individuals to embrace and acknowledge their feelings. For a carer, this means accepting the present moment without judgement, including the full range of emotions that come with their role – the good, the bad and the ugly. 

Incorporating these self-compassion principles into daily life serves as an antidote to feelings of inadequacy and emotional fatigue often associated with carers’ burnout. 

Mental Health Support for Carers

Caring for others is a noble and selfless endeavour, but it’s not without its challenges. Carers’ burnout is common, along with other mental health issues.  

In fact, 84% of UK carers feel stressed, 78% feel anxious, and 55% say they’ve suffered from depression 

It’s vital that carers seek support when it’s needed and shouldn’t feel ashamed to say – “I need help!” 

Support can be found by sharing shared experiences with a trusted friend or joining support groups specifically for carers. These can be instrumental in alleviating the sense of isolation that often accompanies the caregiver’s journey.  

Professional help is also an option; talking to a GP or mental health professional can open pathways to counselling services, providing coping mechanisms and emotional support.  

Carers should explore local charities and organisations that offer respite care services, allowing them to take necessary breaks. Respite care temporarily relieves caregiving duties, allowing carers to rest and recharge their batteries. This can significantly reduce the risk of carers’ burnout.  

Taking regular breaks, seeking professional help, and finding a sense of community among other carers are essential strategies in managing and preventing carers’ burnout.  

It is commendable and important to pause and acknowledge personal needs while caring for others.  

Remember, your wellbeing is just as important as those you look after. 

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